happy camper

We buried Mom yesterday at the place on earth she loved most. Bolton Landing at Lake George, with her boys. She told us she met our Pop there, camping with friends, and for close to 70 years she returned there. We grew up camping on the islands every summer, and we brought our dogs, our friends, and then our families to enjoy this incredible slice of heaven on earth. It was free-range parenting at its finest. Often my Pop had to go back to work and she would spend 3 to 4 weeks with the band of wild boys who spent all day swimming, hiking, snorkeling, fighting, paddling, jumping from cliffs, building fires and forts and memories. She eventually bought a condo and her own boat up there to enjoy it year round. 

She loved to go fishing up in Northwest Bay and Huddle Bay with Dan and I early in the morning. She liked to fish, but more she liked that she had two of her boys in a boat for hours to talk with. I always brought the coffee in a thermos that had come with a Rapala floating minnow, and that thermos lasted way longer than the lure did. She wanted to hear what our work was like, or what it was like for us with our families, and she shared stories we’d heard dozens of times already, in her signature lengthy and meticulously detailed re-telling.

At the time I would sometimes begrudge the conversations, but as the years rolled on and we knew the window was closing on these outings, they became way more important than any of the fish (and that’s something coming from me.) That these times were also shared with Dan make them even more luminous in my mind. 

At other times we’d take her (in her boat that she’d always graciously lend us for the weeks we were there) to various picnic locations like Sarah Island– her namesake spot– and Paradise Bay.  She’d spend the day with us, swimming and sunning, and talking with Cheryl and I. We shivered and laughed under boat covers and tarps as the sudden violent cold thunderstorms would catch us by surprise even after all those years. Our kids were able to see what makes Vermonters different from the rest of us ”flatlanders”! 

She still camped every summer, for decades on her own campsites in the islands, then later with Dan and Danna and their family. She saw the state rangers come and go, some she knew as friends for years, but knew most all of them by name. They’d swing by in their boat at night to check on Mom at her campsite. 

Just a few years ago, she wanted to try kayaking for the first time. She hopped in, paddled around for a while. When she came out she asked, “Where can I get one? I’d like to do that more.” And she wasn’t kidding around.

As late as two summers ago at age 85 she still camped, and Mike was able to join her on “her” campsite again the last couple of summers. Finally, last summer we brought her one more time, first to Brattleboro VT, her home growing up and then to Bolton Landing to see and say goodbye to all her friends up there. We had sold the condo and gotten a place in an assisted-living home, a term at which Mom bristled greatly. She didn’t like the idea of being assisted, but came to accept and then finally embrace the “new chapter”, as she called it. However, she wanted to make sure Dan still had her camping gear in case she wanted to go to Lake George again.

She had found a faith in Jesus later on in life, and that gave her strength and comfort as she neared the end. Tim would read from the Bible and she’d smile and nod. She told me she was ready for a “new, new chapter”.  She loved a good book, and her life would surely be one. She was like Bilbo Baggins, always ready for another adventure. She was a tiny lady with a huge heart and a lot of “moxie” as they said back then. 

As to her remains, she’s back for good at Lake George now. The time we had to say our goodbyes was fittingly in the pouring rain. She had asked that we sprinkle some Lake George water on her stone, and as usual Lake George offered up more than you asked for. But she’s surely found a much greater adventure where she has gone as she has trusted in Him who is the Spring of Eternal Life.

One thing she always did we when were leaving was come outside and stand and wave and blow a kiss goodbye. It didn’t matter what the weather was or what time we left, she would always do it. She wasn’t sad to see us go, she just was letting us know she looked forward to seeing us again the next time.

As I drove away from the cemetery I looked back one last time. In my mind’s eye that image of her waving and blowing a kiss, even in the pouring rain was so vivid and real. But whether it was the rain or the tears, she faded into the mist and we headed home.

We’ll be back Mom, and we’ll see you again. Till then I love you always, and thanks, it was a great adventure.

HappyCampers

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low country

dawn does’t crack in the low country of Georgia. Much like everything else here, it just kind of eases into it. No reason to hurry, it’s just too hot. We saw trees that were dead for decades that didn’t know it yet, so they just kept gripping the beach while wind and sand polished them into amazing abstract sculptures.  Some of the most powerful and richest people in the world came to Jekyll Island for a while, but they’re dead and gone now. It was never their home. These trees though, they belong here.

consider

Somehow the post got lost in the ether(net). So here’s what it was supposed to be–

28 And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin,29 yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. – Matthew 6:28-29

I admit, I’m prone to being anxious about many things that are out of my control. (Clothing not really being one of those though, as my wife can attest.)

An unplanned Palm Sunday afternoon spent wandering around Longwood Gardens, just considering God’s creation, really is a great antidote to anxiety. Even more so when you consider the Creator.

All things considered, no worries.

somewhere in between

Coming into work I cross over the Schuylkill River every morning, just about halfway to the office. I’m usually a little foggy myself, but I always enjoy my glimpse of the river as I cross over. “How are the fish biting today? Is the water up? Wish I was putting in the kayak for a paddle.” These kinds of thoughts run through my head, but then I’m past it, and on up the hill to work.

This morning though, as it sometimes is in the spring, it was otherworldly crossing over the bridge. The colors had all drained away and it was nearly impossible to tell where the river left off and the sky began. I stopped to just look at it for a while, and saw this shot in my head before I even took it.

It seemed like an interesting metaphor for many mornings. You kind of emerge from the fog of sleep, to be faced with all these tangled issues that twirl and branch and seem insurmountable, but the fog dissolves and slowly the way, somewhere in between, usually appears.

Coffee helps.

Its funny how on the way home, I usually get a sunset off the water, the river once again reflecting the day. Sometimes you’ve just got to keep rolling on, whether you can see what’s coming or not.

almost home

Been a while since I posted any images, but I’ve been traveling a lot (and shooting some). Recently went to Longwood Gardens to see the Nightscape exhibition. We got there early enough to walk in the Meadows just at sunset, which is just an incredible place. I took a bunch with just my iPhone and have been experimenting with some digital tools to get a painterly, expressionist feel.

I like the sense of urgency in this shot but also the security and hope of home being just in sight.

“This hill, though high, I covet to ascend;
The difficulty will not me offend.
For I perceive the way to life lies here.
Come, pluck up, heart; let’s neither faint nor fear.
Better, though difficult, the right way to go,
Than wrong, though easy, where the end is woe.”
― John BunyanThe Pilgrim’s Progress